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For the bride-to-be & the person she is choosing

Prepare for the marriage,
not just the wedding.

Before We Say “I Do” is a 21-day devotional and connection guide created to help engaged couples slow down, talk deeply, pray together, and intentionally prepare for the life that comes after the aisle.

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Before We Say I Do devotional for engaged couples featuring a Black bride and groom

The wedding gets planned.

The marriage deserves
preparation, too.

You can spend months choosing flowers, colors, music, and a gown. This guide creates space for the conversations that matter after the celebration is over.

21 days of intention

One meaningful
conversation a day.

Each day is designed to take about 15–25 minutes together. Read, talk, complete the partner activity, and close in prayer.

01

Scripture Focus

A short biblical foundation for the day's conversation.

02

Devotional

Thoughtful reflections centered on the realities of building a marriage.

03

Talk It Through

Meaningful questions designed to uncover expectations, fears, hopes, and values.

04

Partner Activity

Simple activities that move the conversation from talking to intentional action.

05

Prayer

A closing prayer for your future marriage and the life you're building together.

21

Days Together

Communication. Money. Family. Faith. Intimacy. Trust. Conflict. Dreams. Boundaries. Partnership.

What you'll talk about

CommunicationConflictMoneyFamily & In-Laws FaithIntimacyExpectationsTrust ChildrenFriendshipBoundariesDreams

Before the aisle

“The wedding is one beautiful day.
The marriage is the life you build after it.”

Start tonight

21 days. 21 conversations.
One marriage you're preparing to build.

Put the phones down, get comfortable, and spend a few intentional minutes preparing for more than your wedding.

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